And my date was…


Is what I may have been saying today had he not sent me a message on Saturday to cancel on me. 

Yup, another last minute cancellation. 

And this one also had to suddenly go out of town for work which necessitated flying out in Sunday. Hence the cancellation of our dinner date. 

Naturally he was apologetic and wants to reschedule when he gets back into town. And maybe this one is a legitimate excuse, but after being rejected by other guys using the exact same excuse has made me pretty much give up on this one. 

Plus, I think there were some other red flags:

He never gave me his cell number, and he never called or texted after I had given him mine. I even asked if we could chat by phone… and nothing. 

He also was inconsistent in his communication as “his best friend had just been in a bad car accident and he was dealing with that.”

These are red flags, right?

Why do I always attract the damaged ones?  

P.S. it was Wichita.  That’s where he was flying for work. And today is MLK day.  Who does that?


About cb

Nickname: Munt Measurements: 45 B, 34, 38(?) Ambition: to be the best human ever! Turn ons: long walks on the beach, romantic dinners, porn, rainbows, cock Turn offs: bad smell face, men who are full of themselves, dead puppies, popcorn, sadness
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9 Responses to And my date was…

  1. Damien says:

    You want me to put a hit out on him?

  2. Paul says:

    Don’t give up. Took me almost 7 crazy/lonely years to find and keep one. Going on 18 years 2gether.

  3. Richard says:

    You’re not alone. I pinged by a guy online last Monday. I had engaging conversation with him and traded pictures. He pressed to meet for a face to face. He wanted to meet as soon as possible. I agreed to meet him on Saturday at a local cultural institution. He texted a cancellation an hour before with the excuse he was running errands. I couldn’t help but think a trip to Home Depot or Target trumped meeting me. I don’t it.

  4. Reader says:

    Oh, the games men play. It’s not you, CB….you’ve got a lot going for you and your wide range of interests makes you even more interesting. A lot of gay men, sadly, like to play games and/or are flakes.

  5. FUCK THAT LOSER, cb! you are better than him!

  6. Blobby says:

    It’s all red flags, unfortunate. The not exchanging phone numbers in this day and age is the main one. If nothing else to text you’re not showing for the date you never planned to go on. If they can’t commit to exchanging digits, but makes a date? Flake.

  7. marilyn says:

    Stories about famous people who share your fear of flying – those who got over it and those who have a reputation for being irrational because of it

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