Reverse Dating

Last week I had a couple reverse dates that I guess I’m going to tell you about.

And by “reverse dates” I mean that we had sex first– then sort of had the talking and stuff afterward.

God, I suck at dating. Literally.

First up: coffee date guy. This was my “reconnection” guy that I saw at the leather night at the Eagle. Yes, he’s the one that bailed on a coffee date.

But then last Wednesday he came over and we sort of skipped the coffee part and went right to the fucking part.


It was as good as I remembered. And fun. And fulfilling— VERY fulfilling.

But then we had a nice chat afterward and got caught up on our respective lives. And we even went out for pizza, so… See? Reverse date.

Unfortunately, I think he is just as emotionally unavailable as he was the last time. Which sucks, because there is something about him. It’s like he’s a neodymium magnet and I’m a ferrous based alloy.

Le sigh.

Anyway– on to date #2.

So, I’m on Scruff on Friday and I get messaged by a cute, younger (like 31) bearded student guy. PhD student. And we start chatting.

I really didn’t think I’d be his type. I’m older, and a good deal bigger (he’s like 5’10” and 130 lbs.

Anyway, he had just finished his dissertation and was looking to blow off some steam. And it being a Friday, I of course had no plans.

So he came over.

And blow off some steam we did.

But then we started talking, and it was really great. I learned about his PhD work, and we talked movies and art (he enjoyed my eclectic tastes) and all sorts of stuff

Again– reverse date.

But I think I might like to reverse date this one again. He was pretty sexy (like naughty nerd) sexy, and a really good kisser.

About cb

Nickname: Munt Measurements: 45 B, 34, 38(?) Ambition: to be the best human ever! Turn ons: long walks on the beach, romantic dinners, porn, rainbows, cock Turn offs: bad smell face, men who are full of themselves, dead puppies, popcorn, sadness
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4 Responses to Reverse Dating

  1. justajeepguy says:

    If it hadn’t been for reverse dates I never would have had any of my LTR’s. All the men (okay 3) who have been in love with me AND me with them were reverse dates. Go for him.

  2. Girl Tuesday says:

    I also say go for him. I love the sexy nerd guy type. 🙂

  3. go for it, you have nothing to lose. I like intelligent men myself! 🙂

  4. Nik_theGreek says:

    I’m glad you’re having fun.
    Since you’re not the one to kiss and tell, any sneaky pictures of them you can send us?
    I like the idea of reverse dating. A friend of mine was trekking me about dating someone from his naked yoga class. Seeing someone naked first, slightly different but with no surprises

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